And The Answer Is?

Well as most of us know having kids is HARD work!  Having kids 11 months apart is NUTS!  Don't get me wrong I LOVE my kids to pieces.  I have a routine now and I don't like getting it messed with at all!  I get up about 1/2 hour to an hour before everyone in my household which makes it around 5 am.  I do the dishes which usually consist of bob's ice cream bowl from the night before and a few bottles.  I make my coffee, I start some laundry, and maybe squeeze in a shower.  By now at least Bob or Henry or both are up.  I get Henry prepared for the day, start his breakfast.  Usually mid breakfast for Henry, Wyatt wakes up hungry.  I start feeding Wyatt while I finish Henry's meal, then get Wyatt dressed.  Then, I can play with the boys awhile.  Next, is lunch time...usually pretty easy, Wyatt sleeps well around this time of day and Henry eats well!  Nap times get hectic, 1 goes down and 1 wakes up!  Anyhow, you get the point...my routine doesn't really involve Bob.  His routine has been the same for WAY too many years and lets face it, his didn't include kids(just a dog).  Well, I was lucky to get mornings til eight out of him as long as I did. 
  I don't like hating on people but sometimes, a person has to vent in order to not go out of their minds! 
  I don't think I could have picked a more self-centered man in this world...like seriously, example:  He comes home tonight just as I'm getting the first child to sleep, I still have 1 to go...it's been quite a night with them so far.  Bob then asks about supper!  HA! I hadn't had time to think about supper yet and its 7, so he says "well, Cowboy Bob needs a ride home and will probably want to stop and grab a bite to eat."  Okay fine go, I guess I expected a simple....can I bring you something home?  Instead I get...I'll be back. 
  I have so much to think about here...is this what I want to deal with the next however many years?  Not only is that the ultimate issue but, I'm starting to see this house in ways I didn't before.  Henry is practically walking now, we have a pellet stove in our living room.  HMMMM? How in the world am I to keep him away from that?  IMPOSSIBLE
  We are completely out of room.  As good as it sounded when Wyatt was a surprise in my belly that we were going to be building on...WHEN?  Let's be honest...Henry's room is now ruined and probably gonna end up molding and useless, that leaves me what choice.  I wish I had all the answers in life...but, that would be way too easy.